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About kowhaico

A writer from teenage years, I have spent many years writing for others: journalist, website writer, creator of adult education both online and off. Now I'm a writer of fiction for myself again and my passion is flowing. I give thanks for the generous authors and writers who feedback their experiences and support others, like me, to improve and grow.

It’s 3.20am and I’m blogging

I’ve had one of those nights when I went to bed early, especially to wake refreshed tomorrow, but instead my mind has been crazy. I guess in this time of lockdowns, and dire economic predictions, I’m not the only one to have become a night owl.

Above: Coffins being buried in New York City will continue to bring huge grief, to family members who survived, for decades to come.

The future and how it will affect us is unknown. Even those who profess to know, can’t or won’t tell us how much and how bad. Things have changed so. Jobs that once were sugar coated managerial positions are out the door and the former employees are off to food parcel lines; those we have often seen near the bottom of the desirable career choices are still happily in work.

  • The streets are still being cleaned and rubbish collected – those workers are getting paid as usual.
  • Couriers are even busier as the population takes to online ordering and delivery.
  • Local bus drivers are only now coming back to work, while tourist drivers are hanging up their Passenger Licences and seeking jobs elsewhere.
  • Farmers are okay as long as they can book their produce into the meat works or take delivery of the feed products they need.
  • Food providers and cafes are trying any delivery method they can to get their food products into the eager, junk food starved hands of people who still have a job.

Living (if you’ve avoided the death knell of Covid-19) just got a whole lot more topsy-turvy.

The land of plenty isn’t anymore

What I can’t believe is the short-sightedness of rioting crowds in the US demanding that they be allowed back to work. Now they may all be herd immunity believers and willing to risk shortening their lives, and those of their families, by going back to sharing spit.  But is that belief really fair on the rest of us who are playing by the rules?

I understand their fear of poverty might seem more important to them, and the risk of death by Covid-19 far less immediate. But take a look at this family reported on CNN in mid-March:

I bet their family dinner never figured to them as a last supper.

Over-reaction save lives

There is so much debate in social media about the over-reaction (or lack of action) of health authorities. Armchair critics have the comfort of being able to gripe without ever risking their necks. The fact is over-reaction and strict lockdown rules will never be proved wrong. There is no way you can count who might have died if the government of the day had not enforced a rigid lockdown. However, countries where governments did not react fast enough are counting their dead.

And the lack of herd immunity because we haven’t all suffered Covid-19 (and therefore are still at risk of catching the lurgy) is only a small fear when you hear the tales from people who have suffered serious bouts. Roll on the vaccines

Heather Sylvawood, Amazon Author

How Bullshit Works

An Easy Lesson in Keeping Your Shoes Clean

Joe Bennett has had me laughing out loud reading his articles and now his treatise Double Happiness – How Bullshit Works.

Born of the generation, just a tad before Joe’s, I had often wondered why the lauded clothes, hairstyle, toothpaste etc. did not work their magic on me and help me achieve lifelong happiness and success. For example: Coke did not launch me into magical beach holidays with lots of friends; I did not achieve a svelte figure: and I never found time to write that block-buster novel I planned. I cannot blame my friends (or Coke); in my memory my friends were all trying the same promoted products with similar mediocre or skewed results.

Now I have found out why. JoeBennettDoubleHappiness15981191

I’ve just read Joe Bennett’s Double Happiness – How Bullshit Works. I can’t say it has been an awakening – more an “I understand now” revelation. For some reason being outside the mainstream, or looking at things differently, I took as not having the tenacity to follow through like film stars do. Now, thanks to Joe, I realise that, deep within, I harboured a simple distrust of the promises of nirvana.

Life for most is mediocre

Life for me would be a struggle outside the world of lovely (rich) people, I decided. And so it turned out. Not that life has been without happiness – on the contrary, I have been blessed with much joy and some heartbreak. I presume, (and please correct me if I’m wrong) that has been similar to the lives of most Baby Boomers who ploughed through life after the even-Greater World War.

New age temples

But back to Joe Bennett’s book. On the subject of sport, let me quote  (p153-154): “In many parts of Europe temples are temples no longer. For most visitors they’re now little more than historical theme parks with gift shops. Today’s temples, where people still go to find the meaning and purpose through ritual, are, most commonly, sports stadiums.”

And so Joe goes on to disassemble the great business of international sport.

It’s not only sport that comes under his perceptive eye. Ever been suspicious about the use of the word ‘natural’? Ever wondered why you let things grab your emotions? Ever noticed how music is used to heighten that emotion? Answer, says Joe, is that someone is trying to sell you a product, or belief, that allows them to grow their coffers and power.

Worth a bedtime read

‘Stern stuff’, you might say. ‘Not something I want to read before bedtime.’

The joy of Bennett’s book, however, is that these unpalatable home truths go down with a dose of humour – laugh aloud humour. He is happy to share examples where he has fallen for the entrapment of the conflation, the slither of expertise, parochial milking, the tyranny of image and other bullshit. And if you don’t know what I’m talking about, I suggest you get hold of a copy of Double Happiness – How Bullshit Works for bedtime reading.

Heather Sylvawood, Amazon Author

PS: As I went to edit this blog my email clicked and there was a request from Neilsen to take part in a survey on sport. If only they knew who they were giving this extended chance to in ‘in the draw’ for one of three Prezzie cards. Luckily I have been vaccinated against such advertising bullshit. Thanks Joe!

A Plague Among Us

The Black Plague is not a thing of the middle ages, as I had imagined. It is still claiming the lives in many countries as I discovered after doing some research following my reading of Geraldine Brooks’ novel Year of Wonders.

My research uncovered for me this article showing the active areas of the world where new plague cases are recorded:

Apparently the plague is as deadly as ever, if not recognised and treated by antibiotics early. Part of its viciousness is the bacteria’s necrotising (flesh rotting) effect. This is graphically portrayed in Brooks’ well-researched novel of a village that sacrifices itself to contain the disease and protect those in the surrounding areas.

Based on real events in the village of Eyam, which can be uncovered here:, Brooks has created some three-dimensional characters, but other real people listed among the dead, appear in the novel under their real names, including the first victim (above) tailor George Viccars, who is presumed to have contracted the disease from fleas contained in a bolt of fabric received from a stricken area of London.

Brooks, a former war correspondent, has an easy to read, compelling writing style that sweeps you along with the tale.  As she writes about the reality of life in draughty stone cottages, with water that had to be fetched and heated over open fires, and sleeping in bedding of hay, she also reveals many of the beliefs of the Middle Ages. We see the women who were village herbalists being persecuted as witches and the wealthy dismissing loyal servants without thought of them having human needs.

The glimpse into Medieval times and living conditions makes one realise how “soft” we are in our Western lives.  But my thanks go to those scientists, like Alexander Fleming et al, for discovering antibiotics and rescuing us from leeches and blood-letting.

Heather Sylvawood
Amazon Author

King Rich–by Joe Bennett

Review by Heather Sylvawood

A daughter aches to find her missing father – a father whom her mother has blamed and bad-mouthed most of her remembered childhood.

The trigger for the search?

The 2011 Christchurch earthquake.

Annie returns from Britain and begins her search under first the guidance of her cynical nursing friend, Jess, and later her father’s old friend Vince, uncovering along the way the underbelly of a powerful family intent on protecting the family business.


Alongside this story Bennett reveals a man, beset by demons of his own making. Apparently not a likeable character, yet as the story progresses we gain a sneaking regard for the broken alcoholic.

Familiar streets and events

Readers who know Christchurch will recognise familiar streets, familiar sites, familiar people and events. In fact, I found some of his characters so close to known people that I wondered if they might have been speed-dialling their lawyers. But then, would they bother objecting to such fiction?

Bennett’s writing is clean and crisp, and his observation of human reactions is succinct. He resists the Hollywood ending, while tying the ends comfortably together. A good read especially for those for whom the memory of the broken city of Christchurch touches the heart as much as it does mine.

Book: King Rich, by Joe Bennett, published by Fourth Estate,

Heather Sylvawood, Amazon Author

We are star dust and space

It’s amazing, isn’t it? How we are in awe of the heavens, the stars, the collections of them in the Milky Way? We lean back and stare and wonder where “it” ever ends.

For that is a human condition: to look for limitation.

A NASA view of the Milky Way

How we learn limitation

We start as infants stressing about when our mother is there or not there and move onto larger things such as whether our sibling will eat more of the favourite pudding than we will get. There is always limitation – a limited amount to go around.

Then we are loaded with the stress of success.

  • Are we going to pass that dance or music exam, make the team (after all there are only 4/11/15 places)? Can we win this job because there are not many other jobs going?
  • We limit ourselves by stressing about costs. We only have a limited amount of money.
  • We limit ourselves by stressing about friendships. There are only a few people around who meet our expectations of “worth having as a friend”.

Universe too large for our limits

So when we stare in awe at the stars we are flummoxed by the enormity of the universes it contains. We cannot comprehend how something might have no beginning and no end. It must have been created by “some THING”, we think. And then: if “some THING” created this endless galaxy of stars, where does IT exist?

Human research has uncovered much of the universe that exists within us, right down to particles within atoms, the communication between cells, and the space between them. And here again we encounter a mystery: if space exists between every particle, every atom, every cell, we must all be connected by … space. There is nothing that limits my space from your space – only our belief that within my skin I am “me” and within your skin you are “you”.

The atmosphere is no protection

At this point, we must not deceive ourselves into believing in separation (limitation) from the heavens by defining atmosphere as “not space” and beyond our planet as “space”. Space is simply an area where objects of any kind do not exist. Even this is too simplistic a definition because star dust or cosmic dust “from out there” exists in space as groupings of a few molecules to much larger particles.

Our atmosphere, that we see as separated from space, does not protect us from up to 40,000 tons of space dust that settles on our planet every year (see here).

Therefore star dust reaches through space to our planet. Our internal spaces, however, connect outward into the space around our planet and that connects with the space in our solar system and that connects to interstellar space – so we are all one.

Now, there’s a concept bound to challenge our brains built on limiting beliefs.

Heather Sylvawood, Amazon Author